Tuesday 19th October
After my five hour trek around South London, site hunting, skipped onto a bus to Oxford to take part in Conversational Dinners. The brainchild of Theodore Zeldin and run by Oxford Muse, the dinners are intended to bring together complete strangers to talk, share knowledge and learn from one another. Everyone gathers, is paired with someone they have never met before, and sits at a table for two. Everyone is allocated a menu of conversation and during the course of the dinner you ask one another questions from the menu.
Talking, Eating, Sharing. All key to my project, but my frustaion was the pairing element. I found experience isolated in the way that you only spoke intenesly to just one perosn – I desperately wanted to turn to someone at another table and say “Hey, this is an interesting comment here – what do you think?”. Without that communal group discussion I found the exeperience strikingly singular in that it was just the one person. I wanted a table full of strangers to talk to.